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I am often shocked by how much I still have to learn about kink, despite years of education, training with kinky professionals, and being...

Jay* , a client of mine, is using our therapy sessions to explore the divide between their monogamous commitment and bisexuality. Here's...

It is best to think of your sexuality like a constellation, at any given moment you are shining brightly on one point of each of the many...

Sex and porn addiction are different from substance addiction, in fact, the terms “sex/porn addiction” has been rejected by sexual health...

Stop asking people not to be sexual, start asking people to have sexual integrity. General Sexual Health Sexual fantasies for better sex...

"Nothing builds intimacy like vulnerability" - Janet Hardy .... and nothing is quite as vulnerable as an intimate conflict. We are in...

After surviving wounds to our sexuality – childhood abuse, birth trauma, assault – we survivors tend to be hypervigilant: “am I OK yet?”...

Every libido is a unique fingerprint woven together by a variety of complex factors : interests, fantasies, beliefs, values, morality,...

Warning, a highly tragic news story is about to be mentioned. On May 7th a woman from our neck of the woods - Seymour, TN, was found,...

I have been playing bridge and I am burnt the fuck out. One of my clients had a unnecessarily traumatic birth in the hospital. I've been...